Prepping Children For a Hospital Visit

Staff Writer
Baystateparent Magazine

Get the Stuffed Animals to Help

The best advice I can give is to start talking to your child early. Play is such a fun and engaging way to help educate and prepare your child. If you have a play medical kit you can start working with your child to fix a boo boo on their favorite stuffed animal. This is a great time to ask questions like, “do you think the doctors really need to give shots in your ear?” or “where do you think the nurse will put your blood pressure cuff?” This is especially good as see your child has it wrapped around the animal’s neck.

During play, you can also begin to figure out what you and your child will use as your way of coping. If Teddy is about to get a shot, you can ask your child, “is Teddy scared? What do you think would help Teddy feel brave?” You might need to help your child with some ideas, like holding someone’s hand or taking a deep breath. Have your child help Teddy with the idea they choose, so they are now practicing for themselves. Sneaky, right?

Flashlights Make Great X-ray Machines

If your child will be having tests at the hospital, you might need to get creative. Items around the house can turn into pretend hospital equipment. I’m famous for making the TV remote an ultrasound wand, using a big flashlight to show how an X-ray machine would move over the child and shine down to line up the picture, or for comparing a CT machine to a big donut. My thoughts often involve food!

Another big piece of helping your child get ready for the hospital is to be honest.  I’ve had parents tell me, “Jimmy is scared of the doctor so I told him we were going to the movies and came to the hospital instead.” I get the reasoning … parents don’t like upsetting their kids or having to wrestle them into the car because they’re scared. But now the problem is that Jimmy may be super mad at you, doesn’t trust your and doesn’t want you to help him. He might also scream and not believe you the next time you say you are going to the movies to enjoy some buttery popcorn and the next big children’s blockbuster!

Always keep in mind how your child processes information. A good rule of thumb is to use their age to determine how long in advance you should tell them about the hospital. If your child is one to two years old, you should talk to them about it one to two days before coming in. For kids ages five to seven, you can give them five to seven days. This gives them time to think about the information and ask questions.

Our Child Life Program is also here to help if you still have questions about helping your child get ready for a trip to the hospital.

Rushing to the emergency room?

  • Grab your child’s comfort item (stuffed animal/blanket).
  • It’s okay if your child is scared, that’s normal. Tell them that the hospital is the best place for the doctors to help them get better.
  • Be honest! If your child asks questions along the way answer them to the best of your ability.
  • It’s okay to tell your child you don’t know exactly what will happen when you get to the hospital. But you can tell them you will take it one step at a time together!

Join the conversation. What would your child bring to the hospital with them? Tell us in the comment section.

Article originally published in Simply Well Blog by UMASS Memorial Medical Center