Take Eight with Kirk Davis

Staff Writer
Baystateparent Magazine

Hopkinton parents Kirk and Laurie Davis purchased what became baystateparent in June 2002. The parents of a son, with a daughter on the way, the Davises longed to own a parenting magazine that would be a blend of their personal and professional ambitions. Today the father of two teens — and a 20-year-old magazine — looks back at the past 14 years, as well as the changes along the way.

What springs to mind is the fact that I have had the privilege of owning the magazine for 14 of its 20-year run. I have been in publishing all of my life. Nothing I’ve done quite compares to the pride and joy I’ve derived from helping to guide parents and families, and share their stories

I became aware of Today’s Parent in 2001. It was shortly after I acquired the wonderful weekly newspaper, The Landmark, which is based in Holden. I desired to build a small, high-quality, local publishing company, and thought that the parenting magazine would be a great fit.

In 2002, there was already a proliferation  of parenting publications and online sites. I wanted to make sure that the magazine identified with a geographic region. I wanted to emphasize that we were focused on families in Massachusetts and their stories.

As I was going through the process to acquire the magazine, my wife and I were also going through the process of adopting our daughter. At one point, I had reviewed over 50 parenting  publications from across the country. I was surprised that so  little attention was given to educating, inspiring, and celebrating adoptive families and children. Acquiring the magazine  coincided with our journey to adopt our daughter, Skylar. So,  as I noted that coverage of the adoption community was thin or nonexistent in most regional parenting publications,  I wanted to change that. When you become part of the adoption community, you learn how large it is and how many resources are available throughout the region to guide families  through the process. We are blessed to be adoptive parents,  and felt we had a wonderful opportunity before us to shine a  light on the many families that grow through adoption.

There are two things that come to mind. First, that  I haven’t outgrown my passion for the magazine,  despite the fact that my kids are now teenagers. Also, the magazine clearly resonates most with  expectant and new parents, which means we are  always attracting a new audience.

One that comes to mind is how families stay “connected.” Technology is clearly changing our  culture as everyone in the home spends increasingly more time technologically connected to everything else, making it harder for families to enjoy consistent quality time and conversation. We all face that. Of  course, violence and safety concerns in society are more commonly and vividly known and shared as a result of technology, too. It’s important to work hard at ensuring there is consistent quality time to discuss things. I’m no parenting expert, but I’m  living this. Keep the conversations going —  on all things that are important in your child’s life. And look over their shoulder…

I think the safety of our kids has become a larger issue and concern. A little adversity is great, but I  worry about everything and it is very difficult to let them go. So the  discussions and lessons about things that I believe could help and protect them are on the rise — everyday. I don’t want them to take their own safety for granted. 

The next 20 years! Bringing all the tools available to provide an even greater resource to families. To keep telling the story of people’s lives here  in Massachusetts. It’s a great place to live and raise a family. That’s our beat  and we’re ready to take our mission to the next level. Thanks for supporting  our mission.